Why You Don't Need Better Habits
Do you really believe that this would work for you? Why You Don't Need Better Habits?
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“If you want a better life, you need better habits.” How often do you hear this advice? And how does it make you feel deep inside? Do you resonate with it? Do you really believe that this would work for you?
Maybe your answer is “No”, or maybe you even tried to follow this advice and didn’t really get the results you expected. If that is the case, don’t worry! There is nothing wrong with you! It doesn’t mean that you don’t want to change, or that you don’t have what it takes to create positive changes in your life. You just need to go about it differently.
If you are an HSP or an empath your nervous system is different and more wired for protection. That means it can prevent you from going into an unfamiliar place or navigating uncertain territory just to keep you safe. This protection works wonders and keeps us from total shut down if there is no other escape, but as we age and become independent it can keep us stuck and trapped in loops that no longer help us.
Even though you might try a new habit, and you might try some positive mindset techniques, if your nervous system doesn’t feel safe with the success that those habits or patterns of thinking are going to lead to, then you are going to get in your own way.
So, what should you do instead? How can a highly sensitive soul feel empowered to create the life that they want and DESERVE to have? Listen to this new episode to find out the answers to these questions and much more!
Lola is going to explain how mainstream personal development advice can misdirect HSPs and empaths and why you don’t need better habits. She will also talk about some of the most common signs that your nervous system might be more wired for protection than you think. Plus, she will reveal a “manifestation” practice that will take you farther in a year than vision boarding ever could!
Build a Better Nervous System First, Then Build Better Habits
If you find yourself wanting to be a different person, but struggle to realize what you feel and know is possible then you likely need some resilience and self-healing training. If you’re interested in learning more, then join my Empathology™ waitlist and I’ll be in touch with you about why my program is likely the perfect solution to your seemingly endless struggle to achieve what you desire and want to become.
Rooting for you and your inevitable success and resilience, love! Be well and thanks for being here.